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13

Dec
2011

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By Natalie

changes like: bangs.

On 13, Dec 2011 | No Comments | In sharing | By Natalie

things change.
and sometimes there is nothing 
around you reflecting
that change you feel.


what can be done?
sometimes nothing.
but sometimes
something must be done.


something drastic.


to remind you everyday
of the change you
feel all around.
and of the change you
feel within yourself. 


this past week.
i did that something drastic.


uh-oh.


i got bangs.


i didn’t just get bangs 
anywhere.
i went to the cutest, most
shabby-est of chic-ish interior
shabby-chic has ever seen before.


i tell no lies.
this is not something to
joke about.
that’s how perfectly
fabulous it was.


where was i
you ask?

why! this lovely place,

yes you did just read
correctly.
salon & creative space.
um-hello?


if only i wasn’t so busy
eye-goggling mirrors,
wallpaper & chaise lounges
pillows & birdcages
lamps & wall art…


if only i wasn’t so absorbed
in the act of
you know, getting bangs…


i would have snapped some
photos to share.
because this place.
this salon & creative space
must be known.


but alas
the only visual i can share
is what can be found on 
their website.



no matter.
you’ll just have to visit
yourself i guess.


tucked between the hour car rental
& the bird cafe
BANGbang is nestled cozily
into a weathered brick exterior.
right in the Kingfield
neighborhood.


as my stylist
stood snipping away
layer upon layer of locks,


she remarked,
“why didn’t you come after 3pm? 
then you could have sipped on a 
glass of wine.”


oh why oh why
didn’t i?!


instead i enjoyed my
orange juice.
next time, i promised
my palate. 


i had to ask her.
as she snipped snipped away.
because what she was doing
was pretty typical.
yet how she approached it
…something was
different.


“each head of hair
is my canvas,” she remarked.
“to create, style and transform.
that’s the fun part.
the creating.
helping to create
the change for people.
that’s why i do this.”


and that,
is precisely what she did.
style & trim.
here, here & then suddenly
… there.
an artist in her
own right.


her work
reflected something deep
inside that
was begging to be
expressed.


BANGbang assisted me
in that expression.


“there!” she said,
twisting me around to see
her final touches.
“i’m done here.”


good, i thought.
now my work begins.
to settle into
the change inside
as well as the change
that is now
staring right back at
me.


“oh yeah, and pop in
anytime
for a bang trim.
they’re free!”


i can’t exactly remember.
but i think
i might have hugged
her.


have you been to BANGbang?
do tell. do tell.


– n.









30

Nov
2011

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By Natalie

music in the mail.

On 30, Nov 2011 | No Comments | In sharing | By Natalie



i have a favorite thing
about my new apartment here.
on this side of the
ocean.


it’s the mail slot.

{often the simple things
right?}

it’s charming.
it’s old.
it’s from the 1920’s.


but you know, sometimes the mail
gets a little stuck
in there.

so you have to tug.
and sometimes
the mail
takes an unfortunate
hit for this.

{oh well}.

today.
something new happened.

a package.
held my name.
propped nicely beneath
#106 mail slot.

that’s strange,
no cyber monday
shopping done here.

i tucked the package
under my arm with the
rest of little victories 
from the tug-o-mail.

hands full.
i set the loads in my arms
down and promptly 
forgot all about
this little brown package.



until later.

when i finally stopped 
for a minute to remember.

how can you forget mail?
and a package at that!
{still unsure.}

i opened the brown paper 
to find
two CDs:
one christmas. and one not.
and a note.


from a kind gentleman
that i met once.
once.

we had chatted and connected 
on our mutual love for 

here he was
sending me some of 
his son’s choir tunes.
wondering if i might
enjoy them.

might i?!
oh yes i might..
and i’m going to try
my absolute best
to perhaps see the famous
this december 9.


any joiners?


come.
we can sit and
rub our goosebump-ed arms
together.




-n.
















revisiting old friends.

On 22, Nov 2011 | No Comments | In remembering, sharing | By Natalie

i am constantly looking
for new books to read.
new releases.
the best of 2011.
the best books in the last century.
must reads.
new york time reviews.
meandering through bookstores.
yes please.
as much as i love the new.
lately in my book reading
i’ve taken sometime
to do some remembering…
rereading…
some revisiting…
have you revisited any of your
oldest
and most favoritest
of friends lately?
have you dusted them off
and paid them some long
overdue
quality time?
have you smiled the knowing
smile when the part comes
and you know precisely
how your friend
will respond?
“just how many dresses
did you say you had, Wanda Petronski?”
“a hundred. a hundred dresses.
all lined up in my closet.”
“i’ll give him a balloon.
i’ve got one left from my party.”
“that, Piglet, is a 
very good idea…
it will cheer Eeyore up.
nobody can be
uncheered with
a balloon.”
“Mr. Bennet, you take delight 
in vexing me. 
you have no compassion on
my poor nerves.”
“you mistake me, my dear. 
i have a high respect 
for your nerves. 
they are my old friends. 
i have heard you mention them with 
consideration these twenty years 
at least!”
and in your revisiting?
have you noticed something
you haven’t noticed before?
“but of course we can’t take
any credit
for our talents. 
it’s how we use them 
that counts.”
 
and so it is with
reoccurring visits.
with these old friends
there is a
sort of
timelessness
than cannot be explained.
can you remember the first
time you were
introduced
to these gems?
hmmm…
for some yes.
for some no.
for some friends are so deep
apart of me
i cannot remember not knowing.
but others are new friends
and their wisdom
is still sinking in.
have you read any
old favorites as of late?
due tell…
due tell…
-n.